Mascot Street!
Adam's Story
December 22nd 2000 Adam's wife
Belinda suddenly died from a mysterious illness that resembled al the symptoms
of meningitis. However it turned out to be a clot of malformed veins in her
brain that burst and flooded her brain.
Belinda died within 18 hours.
Mary
and I were in Mackay Queensland visiting Lucy and her family with the intention
of being there for Christmas and new year.
Belinda's parents had arrived in
Thirlmere to visit their daughter and grandchildren for Christmas and instead
ended burying their beloved Belinda.
What a tragedy!
Belinda's parents had
recently moved to the Gold Coast to retire and where not capable to come to the
rescue of Adam so we volunteered to do the job.
Adam was devastated, the
youngest was still being breast fed and Belinda was several months
pregnant.
Hannah was not yet five. and just wanted her mum.
We invited
Adam to move in with us in Woy Woy until he could think straight and decide what
to do with the future.
He made plans. He embarked on a new direction in life.
Adam always enjoyed scuba diving so he enrolled in a comprehensive
Hospitality Industry course which had one major component of learning to be a
dive master. The course is full time for nearly two years and we don't see much
of him but psychologically his decision to do this course has paid of. I think
he has come to terms with his grief and is facing the future
with optimism
and his general attitude seems very healthy and well adjusted.
At home he is
easy going and pleasant to get along with.
The girls are spoilt and pampered
in the nicest way and we get compliments about their behavior from everyone not
least from Hannah's school teacher.
Adam has also started dating, although he
complains how difficult he finds the " looking for a partner scene".
WHERE DO WE LIVE?
Woy Woy is situated on the East Coast of Australia,
70 kms north of Sydney.
It is positioned between Sydney and city of
Newcastle, and is a major regional city of the State of New South Wales. The
Central Coast is easily accessed by major road and rail routes, and has a large
installed infrastructure to support industry, manufacturing, commerce and
residential services. As it is only one hour north of Sydney, it is an area
popular for holidaymakers, retired people, young families and commuters.
Usefull Link To the glorious
NSW Central Coast
! Our House
as it was being built. We all lived in harmony together.


